First time manager tip: 1 on 1 meeting questions and agenda

Gabe Kwakyi
4 min readOct 21, 2022
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Read the following quick tips of 1–1 routines in order to either gain a few new ideas of how to run better 1:1s, or reinforce habits you’re actively practicing.

Watch a video version of these tips, and explore how working with a leadership coach can help you become a more effective leader.

Ideas for 1–1 Questions

Practice an organized management style and increase the chances that your 1–1 conversations will consistently produce meaningful outcomes by using a standard set of questions:

What are you excited about right now?

This question enables your 1–1s to begin on a high and engaging note from the start, which can anchor the tone for the whole meeting in more bigger picture-thinking (where your value as a manager can help explore/create sustainable new opportunities), rather than the problems/complains/fires (where your value as a manager will be relentlessly drained, with little sustainable growth).

Listen intently to what your reports says in response to this question — this is not only a fun question, but can generate key insights that can inform your people development strategy.

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Gabe Kwakyi

A curious mind and a passionate personal development coach, specializing in life, career, and business coaching for people in the technology and business fields